Ecclesiastes 4-6 / 2 Corinthians 6:14-7:7 / Psalm 47 / Proverbs 22:16
Depending on others can be a tricky business. Everyone has seasons of strength and seasons of weakness. We’re taught in Christian circles to depend on God first, then ask people to partner with us. However, we must never fully depend upon or put our trust in people because people are weak and finite in their wisdom and strength.
In much of the reading today I was reminded to be cautious regarding who I put my trust in. I’m not speaking of basic trust of God and people; I’m speaking of placing too much weight on humanity, especially the wicked or those who care nothing about right living before God. You may find yourself burned or ruined before you even know what hit you.
In Ecclesiastes 5:10 Those who love money will never have enough. I’m reminded of many today who care only for money and things and sadly care nothing for the people around them. Don’t make the mistake of trusting someone like this.
However, if you find someone to trust or count on, that will be to your advantage. I love the verses in Ecclesiastes 4:9-129 Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. 10 If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. 11 Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? 12 A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.
It’s who you choose to trust that makes the difference. We are warned in 2 Corinthians 6:14 Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness. How can light live with darkness? Discernment is a key need among believers; don’t be fooled by words, but seek wisdom from God’s Spirit before committing yourself to any situation.
Unfortunately, Jeff and I have learned this the hard way. You may find someone who claims the name of Christ, so you decide to partner with them without taking time to test their character or ask around regarding their business practices. We’ve been burned a couple of times thinking we were making a good partnership. Business with friends can sometimes ruin a good friendship.
I would rather have the friendship and stay at peace with one another than make a buck and end up as enemies. Money or friendship? If you’re in a situation simply for your own advantage, or you find yourself in a situation where the other person is only there for his or her own advantage, extricate yourself quickly. I’m speaking from experience. You may find yourself taken to court and you may lose more than you bargained for! Do everything in love. And seek to partner with those who have the same value. I’m not saying you can’t be friends with the lost or those whose values don’t quite match your own, however, keep a safe distance until someone’s character is proven. Never rush into any relationship or situation. Take time to pray, asking God for His heart. I promise He’ll guide you if you ask, seek, knock, and listen. You’ll also be saved from much heartache by entrusting all your decisions to God.
